When you don’t know how to help someone you love it’s heart breaking. When you have to leave the situation completely up to God it’s completely scary and it shouldn’t be. That is best place for any situation because I know I can mess some stuff up. Only God can change hearts and minds. We can try to bring someone peace but that’s not our place or responsibly. If we find these things in someone it’s only temporary because people are temporary. We can not give any one person that kind of power. Only person that can handle that power is God. Don’t worry yourself to death about things that you feel like you should control because most of this(life) is bigger then us.